| Has something in his energy shifted lately? Does your | | | | Sign #4: He shows extreme interest in a new hobby: |
| guy seem to be paying less attention to you? Do | | | | Has he recently decided he wants to start hunting, |
| you have the feeling your man is cheating or at least | | | | fishing, amateur sports car racing, or some other |
| thinking about it? | | | | hobby that seems to have come out of the blue? |
| Suspicion in a serious relationship or a marriage can be | | | | This could be a sign that he is really spending his time |
| a poisonous thing. What's worse, most women who | | | | doing something else. |
| suspect their man may be having an affair feel stuck. | | | | Sign #5: He is coming home freshly showered: Do |
| They both do and do not want to find out the truth. | | | | you find him coming home after a long day or late |
| And then there is the dilemma about how far to go | | | | night smelling like his favorite soap - or worse, not his |
| to really find out what is going on. Rather than letting | | | | usual soap? If your man's hygiene just went into |
| your suspicious eat you up inside, get on the ball now | | | | overdrive for no apparent reason, he could be trying |
| and put the question to rest either way. | | | | to cover his tracks. |
| Before you go hiring a detective or spying on him | | | | Do any of these signs ring a bell for your current |
| from the planter in his company's lobby, try looking | | | | situation? Remember, you do not want to look for |
| for the following signs from him that he may be | | | | something that is not there, so be careful not to |
| cheating. Then, take action. | | | | accuse him of anything until you have all of the facts. |
| Sign #1: His sex drive is down: One common telltale | | | | However, do not live with blinders on, since ultimately |
| sign your man is having an affair is if he suddenly | | | | knowing the truth (whatever it may be) will be |
| stops paying attention to you sexually. Note: this | | | | liberating for you both. |
| does not apply to situations whereby your sex life | | | | Either way, if you have read this far you may be |
| together has been on a steady decline for a long | | | | someone who has some concerns about your |
| period of time. What I am referring to is a sudden | | | | relationship. Or, maybe you just want him to bring |
| drop in attention or activity. | | | | you roses again like he used to. My suggestion: first |
| Sign #2: He is suddenly more creative sexually: | | | | things first. You need to find out the truth about his |
| Another telltale sign is if your man suddenly starts | | | | faithfulness, using any legal and ethical means possible. |
| coming home wanting to try new things in bed. | | | | Just remember to respect his personal privacy and |
| Maybe he is suggesting new positions or wants to | | | | that of others in the process. |
| introduce various items into the bedroom. Take note | | | | Next - if your inquiry shows him to be squeaky clean |
| of this. | | | | in the faithfulness department, I suggest doing |
| Sign #3: His sex drive is up: Paradoxically, a sudden | | | | whatever you can to bring back the love and |
| increase in sex drive can also indicate an affair. If | | | | romance you once shared. A man who brings you |
| your guy suddenly just wants to do it more often, | | | | roses is a man who adores you. You need to get him |
| he could be getting his inspiration from another | | | | back to that place again. You are both worth it. |
| relationship. | | | | |