| Dear Tonja,I need some dating advice. I
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| | your life who loves you back. You
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| am a 57-year-old woman and the guy I am
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| | deserve someone wonderful. You deserve a
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| seeing is 60. He just got out of divorce
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| | man you are attracted to who shares your
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| number four. He is wealthy and has moved
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| | values, and who is loyal, tender, kind,
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| a 35-year-old into his house as his
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| | and accomplished. If you do not feel you
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| girlfriend. I live in another city and
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| | deserve such a man, look for a counselor
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| he says he wants both of us in his life.
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| | or a coach.*Age. Women are sensitive
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| He is older than her mother or her
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| | about age. We are acutely aware that men
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| father. Is there something wrong with
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| | can and often do choose younger women for
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| him?Signed,
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| | mates. However, not ALL men choose
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| Terribly HurtDear Hurt,You are not alone
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| | someone younger, and for those men who
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| in your pain. As improbable as it
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| | are only looking for youth, you don't
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| sounds, we can all find ourselves in this
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| | want them. Breeze on by this type of
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| same predicament. We can get cornered
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| | person. Focus on what you can do, on
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| and think we have few or no choices. We
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| | whom you can find, and let go of what is
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| think there is only one job or one school
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| | never going to be.*Role Models.
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| or one house for us. In your case...it's
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| | Somewhere, you absorbed a role model and
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| this one man. You can't see your options
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| | a belief that says men are in charge of
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| or your opportunities and therefore, look
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| | your life and your happiness. The
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| to see what is wrong with him, as if he
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| | reality is, you can be in charge of your
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| would or could change his behavior for
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| | destiny if you shift this
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| you.Let's look at what you are
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| | thought.*Choices. If you felt you had
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| saying:DenialYou think you are in love
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| | more choices in men, would you want this
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| with a man who has another much younger
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| | man in your life? When we shrink our
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| woman living with him? First, your
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| | life down to zero possibilities, we
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| relationship is not mutual. If you
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| | obsess over trying to make something work
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| accept this arrangement, you are acting
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| | with someone unsuitable. A perceived
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| more like a mother to him than as an
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| | lack of choices can make you hold on.Why
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| equal. And why would you want to be with
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| | cling to a relationship that makes you
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| someone who treats you so
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| | feel bad when there is a world of
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| badly?DeceptionObviously, this man has
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| | opportunity waiting for you? You can't
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| been deceiving you, to string you along
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| | get boxed into a corner thinking you only
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| as if you matter to him and then to live
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| | have one hand to play. As the old song
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| with someone else. You are deceiving
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| | goes..."You gotta know when to hold 'em,
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| yourself if you think he can care about
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| | and know when to fold 'em..."You can do
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| you in any deep abiding way. What is it
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| | it.TonjaVisit or for more tips, skills,
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| you want from him? Do you look for a
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| | and insight on dating, relationships,
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| committed relationship with him when he
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| | singles, and love. Subscribe to our
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| shows you he cannot give you loyalty and
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| | F*ree Savvy Dating Newsletter from master
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| exclusiveness?Self-worthYour relationship
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| | single's coach, life coach, and
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| with yourself is what I call D.A.R.C.
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| | syndicated columnist, Tonja Weimer.
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| This is an acronym for the
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| | Copyright 2006, Tonja Weimer. (Please
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| following:*Deserving. You are acting
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| | note source if reprinting this article.
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| like you don't deserve a great love in
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