Finding the Perfect Buddy

As many of you will know and many more will findair as she does her own thing in close proximate in
out that enter the fantastic sport of diving thatcase of any problems that she may have. Checking
finding a really good dive buddy can be quite difficulther air gives her a real accurate idea of the level that
at times. How many of you have gone out on a DiveI am at and that is very reassuring. We both have an
Charter only to find that the buddy that you wereinterest in underwater videographer and Mel takes
put with swims off in a different direction once yousome great footage as well at times sharing the joy
hit the bottom, not to be seen again until you reachof filming. Most of my diving is to a depth of not
the surface? I have had this happen on quite a fewmuch more than 20 odd metres as the light levels
occasions and if you are a new diver with less thanare too low below this point for filming. On a lot of
50 odd dives you may find this unsettling.our dives I encourage Mel to dive and converse with
So what should you look for in a dive buddyother divers aboard the charters as well as join them
Well the first thing that comes to mind for me isunder the water. This allows me to film them as a
diving with someone that I can get along with abovegroup and gives Mel experience with other divers and
the surface as well as below. Then you really wantto see for her how others dive.
to find a buddy that has a similar air consumptionTrust In Your Buddy
rate so neither one of you are missing out on diveWhen diving we are in a hostile environment in the
time. Taking that into account it helps if you bothsense that we cannot take water into our lungs so
have the same interest in the diving, an example ofhaving a buddy that you trust with your life should
this would be if you are into photography and doingthe need arise for their help is paramount. I have full
underwater video. For many divers it is a real borefaith in my buddy being able to assist me if I for
watching someone shooting film while they hang inexample run out of air. Recently I was very low on
the area to make sure that you do not forget orair not completely as I used the same tank from my
overlook your air consumption.second dive for my third dive. The transition of
Now taking the points above into account you reallyapproaching Mel and taking her alternative air source
are limiting yourself of potential buddy possibilities.was a very calm procedure. This allowed us to
Take an active approach to eliminate this problem bycontinue our dive for another 12 odd minutes before
seeking out like minded dive buddies.resting at the safety stop on my own air supply
About my Current Dive Buddybefore surfacing. This brings me to some interesting
My current Dive buddy is only an Open Water Diverquestions that I have been asked!
with around 28 dives under her belt compared to myHow many of you can honestly say that you would
level of a Rescue Diver with in excess of 280 divestrust your buddy with your life? Well I trust mine
in the last 2years. Some people may wonder whywith my life and that goes both ways. I would never
have I chosen someone that is less qualified with lessallow my buddy to risk it all on low air levels in a
experience. Firstly we get on really well as friendsfailing situation as I would prefer that they went for
and talk till the cows come home about diving, andhelp. If your buddy was in a serious situation like
then there is the fact that I can spend time with herentangled in a ghost net or fishing line and you were
to build her confidence.low on air would you risk it all to save them? The
An example of this is how a while ago I decided tofirst thing that comes to mind is self preservation but
go on a dive that she had planned with a local diveI can honestly say I would sooner die trying than not
club and she was glad that I went as she was feelingtry at all. Unfortunately for me and other divers
very stressed about the crew once she hit theMelanie is returning to her studies in the coming
water. Taking the time I calmed her down and gotweeks but I will look forward to diving with her in
her breathing to a nice rate before we made thethe future, as I am sure the others that have dived
dive. This was a great dive and we had a good 70with her will as well. I am sure she has met some
minute dive on 15 litre tanks. The other major factorsother great divers and learned a lot from myself and
for me include how our air consumption is almostothers about how to tackle stressful situations and
exactly the same at any given depth. She is reallyhow it is important to calm yourself before taking
happy hanging around while I am filming watching herthat dive.