22 Ways to Partner

Every month I get inspiring comments from14) Create a healthier lifestyle
workshop participants, newsletter subscribers and15) Plan a family vacation
loyal ezinearticle readers. Many explain how Partnering16) Save for a special event
has helped them achieve personal or professional17) Learn how to scuba dive
goals.18) Adopt a charitable cause
The Question?19) Build our business
However, I often am asked to give people examples20) Drive around the country
of how they can use the Partnering process to21) Adopt a child
become more successful. In the spirit of22) Hike in the rain forest
Thanksgiving, here are 22 ways people have appliedThese "22 Ways To Partner" illustrate the various
the Partnering concepts. The first eleven examplesmethods people have applied the Partnering Process.
are what I refer to as "Reciprocal Partnering" in thatThe possibilities are endless, but I wanted to share
Partner is working on their own personal objective.some real world applications that people have used.
These are great testimonials where Partners haveIs Partnering just for two?
supported and encouraged each other to grow andThe process has successfully been applied in small
achieve.groups. Here is a story from Mike in California that
One thru eleven.demonstrates how Partnering can help three people
1) Watch less TV and volunteer my timereach their common goal. Mike and his two friends,
2) Stop smoking and exercise moreMatt and Kenny, decided they wanted to participate
3) Spend more time with family and learn to cookin a triathlon. Each brought a different strength and
4) Buy a new car and improve PC skillsskill to the Partnership.In a triathlon, athletes compete
5) Take up golf (I don't know why) and save morein three segments of a timed event. Just in case you
moneyare interested, they are: A 1500 meter swim, 40KM
6) Improve communication skills and homeroad cycling race, and a 10KM run to wrap things up.
improvementsEach of the three men in this story brought a
7) Start my own business and read more booksdifferent strength to the "team." Mike is a very
8) Climb a mountain and improve listening skillsstrong swimmer, Matt is the runner, and Kenny
9) Increase cold calls and read more to my childrenexcels at biking. They gave each other pointers to
10) Run a marathon and write my bookimprove their individual performance and provided
11) Develop a web site and lose weightencouragement and support to each other
Twelve thru twenty-two.throughout the training program. All three completed
The following eleven examples are what I callthe event with respectable times and Kenny finished
"Collaborative Partnering." In these Partneringin just over 2 hours and 32 minutes.
relationships, both partners are striving to accomplishEmail me! By now you are probably saying to
the same thing. However, they probably are takingyourself, "I have Partnered in lots of ways!" Send me
advantage of each others strengths and abilities.an email with an example of a successful Partnering
12) Get our finances in orderrelationship.
13) Spend more time together